What to Do If Your Partner Is Trying to Convince You to Send Nudes

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Welcome to Ask a Sex Educator, a weekly series where renowned sex educator Lena Solow will be answering all of your questions about the tough stuff — sexuality, gender, bodies, STDs, pregnancy, consent, pleasure, and more. I told him I didn't really want to, but he won't drop it. Is it okay to send nude photos if someone promises not to share them? Ugh back off, boyfy. And what's more, he's hiding the pressure with a compliment telling you you're beautifulwhich probably makes it feel more confusing. Now, let's talk about nudes for a minute. Taking and sending naked pics is a sexual activity, and just like with any sexual activity you want to first check in with yourself. If you do a little self check-in and you ARE feeling totally into it, there are a few things to think about.

Carriage nudes used to be such a taboo thing to do—no one talked about it but everyone did it. Then people started realizing sexting was hot , which led to add and more nudes being sent, which led to women getting their nudes leaked on the internet. Set your own boundaries. Want to send him a photo in your bra only?

But you've ever attempted to navigate the minefield that is online dating, the chances are you'll have received a dick pic. They usually come at the same time as a bit of a surprise, attend to to be fairly early on all the rage conversation, and normally give you altogether the clarification you need to backpack the boy off because clearly he has no social skills. The affair is, dick pics aren't just a bite some women find a bit grim; unless they've explicitly been requested, they're actually just another form of sexual harassment that's become so commonplace designed for women to experience. After all, how many women do you hear of who send photos of their vaginas to men they've only just met on Tinder? So one particular Reddit forum thread was of particular activity to us, asking men why the bloody hell they get their wangs out so often on camera?